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My Experience at Summit of Slay - SPOILER: life-fucking-changing


It's taken me more than a week to get here, but I finally feel like I've fully processed my experience at #summitofslay.

It changed my life. I know lots of people say that about lots of things, so it probably doesn't sound all that impactful, but guys, I'm not fucking around here.

I remember walking out of the first set of sessions and telling my husband, "These are NOT my people. They all have weird hair and they're loud and twerking all over the damn place." I was shook, yall.

But when I went back for the next set, I went back with an open mind and a softened heart, ready to receive. The intention I set for the weekend was expansion, so I was prepared to experience that in whatever way Spirit guided me.

And, guys, let me tell you - those ARE my people. I belonged there, and I could see myself in every one of those speakers.

And my biggest takeaway? BE MYSELF. Have confidence in who I am. Fuck the bullshit. Live life lit TF up and on fire for what I'm doing.

Hearing those stories and knowing that every one of those badass women started at day 1, went through the grind and the growth, and now sit on top of multi-million dollar empires - that shit lit me tf UP! Because if THEY can do it, these normal women and moms and wives, why tf can't I?? The whole experience took "success" from this abstract thing we're constantly chasing after to something tangible that is available to all of us. It gave me hope that all this hard shit - it's not for nothing. And it empowered me to show up in new and more powerful ways.

Overall, #summitofslay 2019 birthed a badass boss lady who's been begging to come out for so long, but I've just been to afraid to embrace. It gave me permission to show up in my mess. It reminded me that million dollar empires can and are built all the time on couches, in pjs, with babies crawling all over the place. It proved that I can say "FUCK" as often as I want (which is a lot) and still be successful. It gave me back my fierce! And it got me fucking STOKED to help other women find theirs.

Thank you @theslaycoach for such an amazing experience. No way I'd miss 2020.

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